MY thoughts

What is love? What is true love with a significant other? As I sit here and write this I just want you to know that there were no notes taken on this topic prior to writing this, it is coming straight from my heart, my experiences and true feelings about the topic. Love to me is a feeling of uncontrollable emotion regardless of thought. Although many say that our brain communicates with all the other organs in our body, the heart is rather a more complicated one to swallow. You can't always communicate with your heart through your thoughts, it has a processor of its own. I think Love goes beyond your heart, it digs deep down into your soul which is something that is usually unexplainable and comes from the universe or God, if you believe in one. As Alan Watts, a well known philosopher once said.... " love is a mystical experience and only very few get to experience it." We as humans do crazy things for love. I'm talking about the "crazy, can't live wi...

I'm not sure where this is going to go but I just know that I want to write. A million things go thru my mind daily. Some positive, some negative, thoughts about my new year, the goals I want to achieve, the target I want to have, my love life, my family problems, my friends, my future, my problems that I want to solve. Sometimes I'm motivated and want to do the best for myself and at times just by seeing one small thing or hearing something that can disappoint me and I lose my focus. Same way one tiny incident or a few caring words from someone even a stranger can pick me back up and throw me back on the train of motivation. It all depends on your surrounding and the people you choose to have with you on the path to a brighter future. It's difficult cutting certain people out of your life but at times its the only choice you have to have a better life. Starting the new year thats one of my resolutions to keep only the positive people around and get rid of all those who a...

Do you ever wonder.. what if you lived in another state or even another country, what if you were a doctor, a celebrity, a singer, a lawyer etc. It all a fantasy we all have. I always fantasize and try to imagine my life so different. I always wonder how it would be if I just left  everything behind and moved to New York or even Paris how would my life be, and what would I be and what career path would I choose in that predicament? It all imagination and how far you can take it to actually make it a reality. It's an interesting concept. However, normally if you actually follow your fantasy and try to outlive it, you learn thats its quite different from what you've imagined, but its still an amazing experience. To dream and dream big is a great thing to do and it only helps in general to turn your positive thoughts into actions. (I'm not talking about the what if's from your PAST.... only towards the future, theres a huge difference). So whether its a big or small wh...